Eat. Sleep. Sex.
Not quite. I'm a girl, so naturally I overthink EVERYTHING. But I'm getting mixed signals everywhere. Why do guys pretend to be interested, only to leave you broke-hearted, confused, or frustrated? I have three classic examples of guys.
Case #1: The digiflirt: We had a super difficult time talking to each other face to face. So naturally I decided to try to get the ball rolling with this ridiculously attractive guy. I asked him to a dance, we talked lots then, we started to text about stupid things like coloring with chalk. But in person...STILL dead. Then. No more texts. Ever. WTF??
Case #2: The overly confident stud: Met this guy at a party. We were joking around. Pretending to tackle and wrestle each other. Had so much fun. Laughed my guts out. He knew he's good looking, and showed off...a lot. Later that night went over to a friend's house, and we all (at least 20 people) watched a movie. We were ticking each other, and I laid on his lap and his shoulder. We've had playful banter over facebook, but I'm too shy to start anything, but would be worth it.
Case #3: The best friend: We've been friends forever. Seriously. I have videos of us from like ninth grade when we first met. (so maybe only like.....3 years.) He was seriously injured in a powertumbling accident, right about the time I realized I had feelings for him. He's the sweetest guy ever. And knows all my secrets the same way I know his. But there's things that annoy me about him. We're so comfortable around each other, he's not particularly careful about the language he uses around me. Not that I even care that much.
Case Untouchable: The first guy I ever loved for everything he was. Left me for the reason I feared most. Can't help but miss everything about him. His funny laugh that I loved, to his sweet kisses that never pushed me too far. But he's moved on. And so must I. But there's still a sick little hope in the back of my mind that he misses me...
3 (Actually 4) very different situations. But all leaving me with the same impression.
HUH!!???!!??
Does love get any easier?
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